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Thursday, October 4, 2012

Because You Care by Cecil Murphey and Twila Belk

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Because You Care: Spiritual Encouragement for Caregivers
Harvest House Publishers
Gift Book
ISBN 978-0-7369-4328-4
Retail Price: $12.99
Release Date: February 2012
Authors: Cecil Murphey and Twila Belk
 From the Back of the Book:
As someone caring for an ill or elderly loved one, you understand that your role can push you to the limit, press on every nerve—and yet fill you with a deep sense of love and peace of mind.
Beloved authors Cecil Murphey and Twila Belk know this too. Beautifully written and full of gentle wisdom, their personal stories of caregiving will help you face some of the ups and downs of your journey.
  • Feeling guilty for doing too much, too little, or nothing at all
  • Answering other’s well-meaning but insensitive questions
  • Watching someone you dearly love suffer or die
Here are the stories from those living the life. Let their encouraging words lift your heart.


Book Excerpt:
(from the beginning)
This Is Who You Are
From Cec and Twila
Others may call you brave. They’ll use words like noble or sacrificial. They’ll admire and applaud you because you’ve offered your life to make yourself available to someone who needs a long-term caregiver.
“I couldn’t do what you’re doing for him,” a friend says.
You listen to the words your friend speaks, and you like hearing the compliments. Yet as you listen and smile, you don’t see yourself as exceptional. You’re doing the right thing for someone you love, and that gives you peace. You also know the reason you’ve devoted your energies to another person.
You can express that reason in a single sentence: “I do it because I care.” You might say it’s because you love the person, or you may do it because of a strong sense of commitment to God and to your loved one. Regardless of how you express yourself, you’re determined to give yourself as fully as you can.
Some days you may not feel like loving anyone. You get tired, lose your temper, or think of the things you didn’t accomplish. During the worst times, you wish the situation would change. And in those dark moments, you’ve probably prayed, Dear Lord, please take this burden from me.
The situation probably won’t change for a long time—perhaps years. It’s not the kind of life you would have imagined. You probably envisioned living out your years in blissful peace. Caring for your loved one wasn’t part of your dream, but this is the life you have. Despite the moments of sadness, perhaps even regret, your answer remains the same: “I care.”
Taken from:  Because You Care.  Text Copyright © 2012 by Cecil Murphey, Twila Belk.  Artwork Copyright © 2012 by Betty Fletcher. Published by Harvest House Publishers, Eugene, Oregon.  Used by permission.
 


Bios
Twila Belk and Cecil (Cec) Murphey are both long-term caregivers for their spouses. Twila, aka the Gotta Tell Somebody Gal, is a writer and speaker who loves to brag on God. She works fulltime with Cec as his manager, personal assistant, and biggest fan. Cec is a veteran author who has written or co-written more than 125 published books, including the bestsellers 90 Minutes in Heaven (with Don Piper) and Gifted Hands (with Dr. Ben Carson). His books have sold in the millions and have brought hope and encouragement to countless readers around the world. Cec and Twilas’ second co-authored book, Heavenly Company: Entertaining Angels Unaware (Guideposts Books), released in August 2012.

For more info about Twila, visit: www.gottatellsomebody.com.

For more info about Cec, visit: www.cecilmurphey.com.
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 Grand Prize Giveaway Description
  • Book—Because You Care: Spiritual Encouragement for Caregivers
  • Book—Hope and Comfort for Every Season
  • Hallmark journal, list pad, and memo pad stack
  • Glade “Angel Whispers” candle
  • Hershey’s Bliss dark chocolate
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  2. Each blog tour host will draw one name from those comments to send to the tour coordinator by October 12.
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Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Ambushed by Grace by Shelly Beach


"The mystery of care-giving is the mystery of grace", says author Shelly Beach in her book Ambushed by Grace. This book is an inspirational book to help those that are finding themselves on the caregiving road. This journey though at times my seem hard and senseless if we allow God to do his work we will come to the end of journey transformed into a new being.

This book offers practical advice, web sites, phone numbers and wisdom from experts in the field of geriatrics and family counseling. This book was written with the purpose to draw you, the reader (caregiver), into the Word of God and to sensitize you to the work of the Spirit of god in your life. The goal of this book, and care-giving for that matter, is to help the reader (caregiver) see the need to carry out the double-love command.

You'll enjoy sprinkled through each chapter:
Roadside Rest - Scripture meditations
Roadside Realities - a static or fact
Roadside Assistance - a tip giving help or ideas

At the close of each chapter the author shares some meditation and personal application questions. Along with scriptures for further meditations, a prayer and resources that go along with the chapter theme.
Chapter themes include:
  • expectations and realities of care-giving
  • imperatives of caregiving
  • helping us see our loved one in a new way
  • forgiveness
  • * 5 steps to forgiveness
  • * 6 garments we must put on to make forgiveness possible
  • dealing with selfishness using the MARIE principle
  • dealing with guilt and grime (hidden dust bunnies)
  • basic steps for building boundaries sharing the PAUSE principle
  • our role as conduits of God's grace; being a grace dumper
  • cultivating a Spirit of Joy
  • surviving caregiving
  • maturing


While caregiving is messy work it teaches us things we'd probably never learn and gives us opportunities that we'd not have in ways we may have never known. Caregiving is hard work. It is a journey. Caregiving comes in many shapes and forms. Where caregiving is concerned you can never give a fraction of what you receive in return if completed by the double-love command.

You'll find helpful things such as:
  • caregiver resource listings
  • things to consider if elderly should move in with you
  • tips on caregiver burnout
  • tips on phone conversations
  • list of caregiver's helpful tasks
  • tips on long-distance caregiving
  • tips for improving communication
  • suggestions for creating shared stories
  • suggestions for decision-making and compromise
  • pages to fill in with vital information for quick references
  • assessing the elderly's driving
  • overseeing finances
  • and also turning toward you, yourself, becoming the elder one day


With both my parents' caregiving is getting closer, one has Parkinson's and the other Crohn's disease, I found the long-distance caregiving tips helpful since they live over 800 miles away. There is so much good information in this book. I very highly recommend this book to any person that is presently in a caregiving role or finds themselves in one sometime down life's road.

A copy of this book was provided for this review by KCWC.

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